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Snacking Snack

Old Gender Roles With Your Dinner?
By Frank Bruni
Published October 7, 2008
fotografia courtesy of Tony Cenicol/The New York Times
Modern Love Snack

by Joel Walkowski
published June 8, 2008
Runner up in the NYTimes Modern Love College Essay Contest
fotografia courtesy of topleftpixel.com
Post Snack

PetruSnack

Another column from The State Press at ASU.
Lesson from the grief-striken
By:Alex Petrusek
Published On:Thursday, September 4, 2008
This past week, I lost someone very dear to me.
I had spent the entire day at school, either in class or at meetings, re-immersing myself in the world of ASU. My mind was busy with buying books, making classes on time, clubs I was interested in and, of course, pretty girls.
By the time I got home and the news hit me, all of the previous twelve or so hours faded into trivial oblivion.
In the following days, I wore a black armband to commemorate her loss; partly to remind me of her presence, partly to remind me of how easily I’d lost sight of that presence.
I knew she was sick, and that the end could come any time. But I didn’t think about her inevitable death solely because I didn’t want to think about it.
Yet it happened anyway.
Life, however, continues onwards, whether I’m ready or not. Throughout this week, I have been continually struck with a combination of sadness and detachment.
I feel regret that I didn’t fully appreciate that which matters, not just in the passing of my friend, but throughout my life. I feel regret at walking through life with selective tunnel vision, focused on the flashy and immediate instead of the beauty I already know and love.
However, the experience hasn’t been entirely negative; I also feel a strange and powerful appreciation and acceptance.
Existence really does play by its own rules, and we all must come to terms with that which is out of our realm of control.
In the end, despite the pain I feel now, I know I am a very lucky man. Our lifestyles often perpetuate a busy schedule, and many of us end up involved in so many activities, attitudes, and “obligations” we forget who we are, where we’ve come from, and who has helped us shape that identity. Those closest to us, our families and close friends, appear to be guarantees, as running constants in a vastly changing life.
I assure you, they are no more constant than a single wave on a shore.In the upcoming days, look around at your friends and family. Slow down, collect your thoughts and busy schedule; listen to their words, pay attention to their actions, and appreciate that, for the moment, you are together.
You have been allowed that moment to share each other’s lives.
And that’s the only guarantee, really; a series of moments, to be appreciated one by one until they’re gone.
Because when those moments end, all you’re left with are memories, a picture-like shadow of what once existed in reality.
We may have our memories, but we cannot replace what has been lost. We cannot take it with us.
But we can appreciate it while we have it.
Tinker Snack
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Yankee Snack

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Snacklog

Subject: A Rebirth of Snacks
Originally Sent June 20, 2008
Snacks on Speechmaking:
-Speak the speech, I pray you, as I pronounced it to you, trippingly on the tongue.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Petru-Snack

Published On:Wednesday, August 27, 2008
You and I live in charmed circumstances.
The very lifestyle you were born into has afforded you the ability to attend this University, to pick up the very paper you hold right now and see these words I have written for you to read. In comparison to most of the world, we are all very lucky to be where we are today.
Strangely, despite it all, despite the air conditioning, the latest technology from Apple and all the gourmet coffee we can drink, I cannot ignore the undertone of desperate disconnect and unhappiness in this affluent world, in this University/city/state/nation you and I share.
Marriages are failing, isolation grows and people are becoming more and more inept at basic human interaction. We continue to pay an emotional price for having more and doing less.
Yet, in the ever-false façade of the American dream, I see more and more cracks forming, more and more plaster falling away to reveal the raw, emotional, beating heart that lies beneath.
That heart is strong, and it is beautiful. It is the heart that provides for love, compassion, honor, generosity and everything else worth preserving in the human condition.
But that heart has been abused, ignored, even forgotten, because of years of material prosperity, ill-fated conflict, cold war, terrorism and the constant fear that at one point, at any point, our lives could be taken away in an instant.
Fear, hate, greed and apathy have corroded the quality of our lives for too long.
As young people in this country, we inherited a system of government, a culture and a society we did not ask for. We did not ask for poverty, for massive debt or low-quality education, for broken homes or emotional immaturity. It has been handed to us.
But we have our youth, and we cannot allow our collective hearts to become embittered, as has happened to generations before. The future is bright, and the distance between the desperation of the present and the enlightenment of tomorrow is much less than it appears.
The aim of my column this semester is to offer a questioning of the deeper aspects of our collective experience — the questions about life that I have found no extant four-year university can inspire.
If we really are the future of this country, it is reliant upon us, and only us, to arm ourselves — not with weapons, but with the required intellect and emotional maturity to handle the rapid changes that will confront all of our futures.
And in this task, I hope I may be of service.
Alex can be reached by e-mail at alexander.petrusek@asu.edu



